Would You Date You? Pt.3 Define Your Non Negotiables Or Keep Settling |EP. 87

Update: 2025-10-10

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Still waiting for someone to pick you? This episode is your wake-up call. Lauren Samantha is calling out the toxic dating patterns that keep women performing, shrinking, and settling—just to be liked. In this raw, no-BS episode, we unpack how to stop dating from fear, define your real non-negotiables, and finally build love from power—not panic. You’ll learn:

The difference between preferences and true non-negotiables
How to stop shapeshifting just to be chosen
What dating from self-worth actually looks like (even if you're scared)
How to challenge the relationship timelines you never asked for
What it means to choose yourself first—without closing yourself off to love

This is part three of the “Would You Date You?” series—designed to help you stop spiraling and start building the kind of relationship you'd actually want to be in.

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Would You Date You? Pt.3 Define Your Non Negotiables Or Keep Settling |EP. 87

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Would You Date You? Pt.3 Define Your Non Negotiables Or Keep Settling |EP. 87

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Would You Date You? Pt.3 Define Your Non Negotiables Or Keep Settling |EP. 87